[Python] limited_api argument is not respected

[moi15moi]

Describe the bug
On Windows, the limited_api argument of Python3.extension_module is not respected.
On ubuntu or macos, I don't have this issue.

To Reproduce
I created a repo to show you a minimal example: https://github.com/moi15moi/mesontest

I build my python wheels in my CI by using meson-python (https://github.com/moi15moi/mesontest/actions/runs/18805902025).

If python is 3.12 or more, I use the limited api like this: https://github.com/moi15moi/mesontest/blob/de1668ff7a522e214d9282de8c2993affde8aea6/meson.build#L14-L28
I installed mesontest-0.2.1-cp312-abi3-win_amd64.whl (which is builded with the CI) in a python 3.13 environment.
If I try to import my project, I get this error:

ImportError while importing test module 'D:\a\mesontest\mesontest\tests\test_my_module.py'.
Hint: make sure your test modules/packages have valid Python names.
Traceback:
C:\hostedtoolcache\windows\Python\3.13.9\x64\Lib\importlib\__init__.py:88: in import_module
    return _bootstrap._gcd_import(name[level:], package, level)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
tests\test_my_module.py:1: in <module>
    import my_module
E   ImportError: DLL load failed while importing my_module: The specified module could not be found.

Note that if I use objdump, I can see that it link to python312.dll instead of python3.dll, but I don't know why it happen.

Expected behavior
The wheel should be usable on Python 3.13 because I am using the limited abi.

system parameters
Type of build: Native build
OS: Windows
meson version: master
Ninja version: 1.13.1

[QuLogic]

Does the minimal example also fail without nanobind?

[moi15moi]

I don't know how to test without nanobind.