CNDB-15156: Include actual number of cached rows above threshold in RFP warn

[adelapena]

ReplicaFilteringProtection has a very useful log message saying when a query has collected more than a certain configurable number of rows, 2000 by default, here:

String message = String.format("Replica filtering protection has cached over %d rows during query %s. " +
                               "(See 'cached_replica_rows_fail_threshold' in cassandra.yaml.)",
                               cachedRowsFailThreshold, command.toCQLString());

This message has been very useful while investigating incidents because it has allowed us to identify which specific queries were returning many rows. The only thing that we missed is that it didn't say exactly how many rows were returned. While we can have metrics for that, it would be useful if this log message also included the specific number of rows.

This PR includes the number of rows cached by RFP when it exceeds either its warning or failure threshold. For this, the warning threshold check is moved to the end of the query, so we can report the maximum number of cached rows just once.

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[adelapena]

Thanks for the review.