fix(python): Enable manual commits for write_database with the ADBC engine

[mullimanko]

Closes #24558.

For example, this PR enables the to write to the database multiple times within the same transaction:

import adbc_driver_postgresql.dbapi as pg_dbapi
import polars as pl

conn_str ="postgresql://username:password@host:port/database"

df = pl.DataFrame({"a": [1], "b": [4]})

conn = pg_dbapi.connect(conn_str, autocommit=False)
print(f"Inspect autocommit status: {conn.adbc_connection.get_option("adbc.connection.autocommit")}")

df.write_database("public.table1", connection=conn, engine="adbc")
(df*2).write_database("public.table2", connection=conn, engine="adbc")
conn.commit()

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[henryharbeck]

While I appreciate this change (and it is arguably the correct behaviour), I believe that it is breaking longstanding behaviour.

For example, the code below currently writes a table to the database, but under these changes, would no longer do so.
It forces the user to change connect(uri) to connect(uri, autocommit=True) or to add conn.commit() before exiting the context manager - that being the breaking change.

from adbc_driver_postgresql.dbapi import connect
import polars as pl

df = pl.DataFrame({"a": 1})
uri = "postgresql://postgres:postgres@localhost:5433"
# autocommit defaults to False in `connect()`
with connect(uri) as conn, conn.cursor() as cur:
    df.write_database("public.my_table", conn)

I appreciate that by default, the ADBC connections have autocommit off (for PEP 249 compliance) (Source), but at the moment Polars is still committing the user's behalf.

Perhaps there is a way to introduce this additional flexibility without being a breaking change. A way to specify that you do not want Polars to commit on your behalf.